This a list of the most common and frustrating Beta Male personality traits. As this is just one woman’s perspective please do not treat it as gospel and do you’re research if any of these traits sound vaguely familiar to what you’re currently experiencing. A good place to start may be The Red Pill or The Married Red Pill.
Beta Male Personality Traits;
The Personal Slave
The personal slave is the ultimate beta male partner for most women- and the most common. Why should we lift a finger or strain ourselves when it’s your job to take out the trash, do the dishes, fold the washing, make the dinner and do everything we ask. We’re tired, our bodies ache, we’ve had a hard day at work. The last thing we want is to lift a finger. You on the other hand don’t seem to mind- or do anything of much use. You don’t complain too much and although we may end up asking you to do the same thing a thousand times- you always end up doing it, without fail. Oh and when we thank you for doing EVERYTHING for us, it’s not actually that we’re grateful, we’re just making sure you’ll do it again next time. You’re welcome!
How to fix it?
Realise that you too work hard and have a hectic life/work schedule, don’t do a single thing she asks you to do unless you actually want to do it and when she complains, stick to your guns, call her out on her crap and whatever you do, don’t back down or give in (no matter what she threatens you with).
The Verbal Punching Bag
The verbal punching bag is a girl’s best friend. It’s not that we like bullying men or treating them like crap, rather it’s that we get a thrill out of being allowed to treat you like this. We can say whatever to you or about you, we call you out in public for your supposed offensive behaviour and best of all we all know you won’t do a dam thing about it. For the beta who complains that women treating you like a verbal punching bag is wrong, when was the last time you stood up to a woman who called you ‘lazy’ or ‘stupid’? If you’re answer is never, it’s nice to meet you- you’re a punching bag- and whats more you’re openly allowing yourself to be treated like one.
How to fix it?
Learn about your own personal worth, set your own standards for how others should treat you and accept nothing less than the treatment you deserve. When a woman tries this behaviour on you, call her out on it and if she does it again, leave her for good.
The puppy beta male type is the kind of guy who wants to hook up with a chick and thinks that the way of getting what he wants is to beg for it. This is usually done by being as nice as possible, buying a woman gifts in exchange for romance or in the worst of cases, by literally begging for it. Usually this is the kind of guy who will mope around like a lost little puppy if rejected and complain bitterly while wondering what on earth he did wrong and why nobody could possibly ever love him. For the puppy who ended up getting rewarded with marital status, this usually results in another kind of dilemma- rare and uneventful reward sex.
How to fix it?
Take women off the mental pedestal you’ve constructed for them, learn how to have game and when all else fails, realise there are truly plenty more fish in the sea- this applies to married men too, if she’s failing to give you what you need, why should you cater to her?
The Cry Baby
I have absolutely nothing against men expressing their emotions and in fact a guy who bottles all of his stuff up is no good at all, but when it comes to expressing emotions, there is definitely a limit. Just in the same way an Alpha Male wouldn’t put with a chick who constantly whines about life and acts like a depressed weeping mess, men who display these kinds of behaviour drive women around the bend. We’ll put up with it for a while but in the end we’ll either try to turn you into our door mat or punching bags. It’s nothing personal, you just seem to be super depressed and aren’t really doing anything about it except complaining so we’re giving you something else to do.
How to fix it?
Men are more likely to suffer from depression due to numerous factors impacting on their lives- work, relationships and societal expectations. If you’re feeling down, look into getting therapy, work through your issues and start making positive changes in your life. (P.s. reading through the above ‘how to fix its’ may help you out too!)
A Side Note:
While the above behaviours toward men are common in a lot of women, a woman will only do and say what she can get away with. If you want a good woman, she does and can exist, you just have to be the kind of man who knows what he wants, knows how to get it and doesn’t settle for anything less.